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**Herjenmie the Eagle Owl** · 03-25-2023, 01:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Cassirin

Considering that Mercer was just as surprised to find that fish as the fish was to be found, it was hard to call it 'fishing'. At least, not on purpose. "It's extremely something, yes, but I think mostly extremely dumb. I'm giving up, y'see?" He splashed out of the water and started pulling his socks back on his numb feet.

They were interrupted by an over burdened owl, who delivered its parcel into a mud flat, and then toppled its way across the ground. Bewildered by raining fowl, Mercer gave the owl a scratch behind where he assumed the ear hole was. "Um. Good fella, but why the heck would anyone think you... well, I won't insult your skill set, but that package was quite... quite." He plucked his socks back off and meandered off into the mud to save the package. Who was it even for?

Never the ungrateful owl, Herjenmie hooted and nipped at the sleeves of the boy's while shifting their weight between their taloned feet. There was disappointment, oh yes. While having their feathers adored was always pleasant, the eagle owl had worked up quite the appetite in flight and nothing soothed sore wing muscles quite like a savory owl treat. Daydreaming about owl treats may have resulted in a slightly less gentle than intended nip at the boy's sturdy fingers, but Herjenmie had been lethargic in their movements so nothing to fret all that much about. A head turn or ten later and the owl was bouncing in place while waiting to be sure that this recipient was, indeed, the correct one.

And the owl had not given up hope that there would be a treat coming.

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Originally Posted by LETTER & PARCEL TO ONE MERCER BRANXTON

Hey bud -

Been organizing our European food pilgrimage for the summer and debating whether or not to take some time in Italy. Pretty hard to near impossible to beat any of mum’s cooking and we have been plenty as a family before so was thinking that maybe we skip it and venture into other countries we have not left our Branxton mark upon yet. Do you have a preference? Let me know, okay?

About your question though…there is some good news and bad news. Bad is a bit too bleak a phrase to be honest, but what I mean is that there is a pro and con to what I am about to say - two sides of the same coin. On the one hand, there is no one way to be in a relationship and every person and dynamic is going to be unique. You’re ace at being unique, so you have got this down pat already! On the flip side, of that same coin, there is no how-to list really for how to be in a relationship so you are just going to have to figure that out as you go. So I guess the advice I am about to give is more how I would approach and think about things were I to be someone’s boyfriend :
Be honest and very clear with your feelings, expectations, and needs for the relationship.

The strongest relationships are founded in friendship and try not to ever forget that. It is not all about romance and the other stuff.

Strive to bring out the best in each other. Fights and conflict are natural and normal and hopefully will be learning and growth experiences for both of you.

Related to the above, being in a relationship should make you feel more like yourself and not less.

Being a boyfriend means that your partner is special and not an afterthought. This does not mean that you should only be spending your time with them nor put them on a pedestal above everything else, but they should be a priority. Remember that your partnership, your relationship, is a place where each of you fully belongs and your emotional needs are equally as important.

Consent, consent, consent, consent, consent.

Kiss their cheek or forehead, hold their hand, be present. The small details can speak just as loudly if not more intimately than the loud ones.

And speaking of kissing...maintain good oral hygiene. I think this is pretty self explanatory.

I wish I had better insight with regards to your question, Merc. We haven’t ever really talked about this stuff before and I’ve never had a significant other - plenty of unrequited crushes though. I have still not been all that successful in the romance department, so I cannot speak to any real experience. That might be changing, soon, but we are still taking our time figuring that out. It doesn’t surprise me too much that you have found someone and someone has found you as you are such a compassionate and likable fellow. Just don’t try to grow up too fast, okay?

Miss you, bud. Can’t wait to pick you up from King’s Cross come the summer. I’ve included more than a few essentials to tie you over in the meanwhile - though I suspect any care package from mum and dad will put mine to shame.

Hopefully something in all this was helpful and…well… let me know how things go? This person you are boyfriend to is very lucky to have you, remember that.

THE SIZEABLE PARCEL ACCOMPANYING THE LETTER INCLUDES A VARIETY OF SNACKS (INCLUDING A COUPLE OF SMALL CONTAINERS OF BREATH MINTS)

03-25-2023, 01:29 AM	#32 (permalink)
Herjenmie the Eagle Owl Red Cap Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 77	Quote: Originally Posted by Cassirin Considering that Mercer was just as surprised to find that fish as the fish was to be found, it was hard to call it 'fishing'. At least, not on purpose. "It's extremely something, yes, but I think mostly extremely dumb. I'm giving up, y'see?" He splashed out of the water and started pulling his socks back on his numb feet. They were interrupted by an over burdened owl, who delivered its parcel into a mud flat, and then toppled its way across the ground. Bewildered by raining fowl, Mercer gave the owl a scratch behind where he assumed the ear hole was. "Um. Good fella, but why the heck would anyone think you... well, I won't insult your skill set, but that package was quite... quite." He plucked his socks back off and meandered off into the mud to save the package. Who was it even for? Never the ungrateful owl, Herjenmie hooted and nipped at the sleeves of the boy's while shifting their weight between their taloned feet. There was disappointment, oh yes. While having their feathers adored was always pleasant, the eagle owl had worked up quite the appetite in flight and nothing soothed sore wing muscles quite like a savory owl treat. Daydreaming about owl treats may have resulted in a slightly less gentle than intended nip at the boy's sturdy fingers, but Herjenmie had been lethargic in their movements so nothing to fret all that much about. A head turn or ten later and the owl was bouncing in place while waiting to be sure that this recipient was, indeed, the correct one. And the owl had not given up hope that there would be a treat coming. Quote: Originally Posted by LETTER & PARCEL TO ONE MERCER BRANXTON Hey bud - Been organizing our European food pilgrimage for the summer and debating whether or not to take some time in Italy. Pretty hard to near impossible to beat any of mum’s cooking and we have been plenty as a family before so was thinking that maybe we skip it and venture into other countries we have not left our Branxton mark upon yet. Do you have a preference? Let me know, okay? About your question though…there is some good news and bad news. Bad is a bit too bleak a phrase to be honest, but what I mean is that there is a pro and con to what I am about to say - two sides of the same coin. On the one hand, there is no one way to be in a relationship and every person and dynamic is going to be unique. You’re ace at being unique, so you have got this down pat already! On the flip side, of that same coin, there is no how-to list really for how to be in a relationship so you are just going to have to figure that out as you go. So I guess the advice I am about to give is more how I would approach and think about things were I to be someone’s boyfriend : Be honest and very clear with your feelings, expectations, and needs for the relationship. The strongest relationships are founded in friendship and try not to ever forget that. It is not all about romance and the other stuff. Strive to bring out the best in each other. Fights and conflict are natural and normal and hopefully will be learning and growth experiences for both of you. Related to the above, being in a relationship should make you feel more like yourself and not less. Being a boyfriend means that your partner is special and not an afterthought. This does not mean that you should only be spending your time with them nor put them on a pedestal above everything else, but they should be a priority. Remember that your partnership, your relationship, is a place where each of you fully belongs and your emotional needs are equally as important. Consent, consent, consent, consent, consent. Kiss their cheek or forehead, hold their hand, be present. The small details can speak just as loudly if not more intimately than the loud ones. And speaking of kissing...maintain good oral hygiene. I think this is pretty self explanatory. I wish I had better insight with regards to your question, Merc. We haven’t ever really talked about this stuff before and I’ve never had a significant other - plenty of unrequited crushes though. I have still not been all that successful in the romance department, so I cannot speak to any real experience. That might be changing, soon, but we are still taking our time figuring that out. It doesn’t surprise me too much that you have found someone and someone has found you as you are such a compassionate and likable fellow. Just don’t try to grow up too fast, okay? Miss you, bud. Can’t wait to pick you up from King’s Cross come the summer. I’ve included more than a few essentials to tie you over in the meanwhile - though I suspect any care package from mum and dad will put mine to shame. Hopefully something in all this was helpful and…well… let me know how things go? This person you are boyfriend to is very lucky to have you, remember that. THE SIZEABLE PARCEL ACCOMPANYING THE LETTER INCLUDES A VARIETY OF SNACKS (INCLUDING A COUPLE OF SMALL CONTAINERS OF BREATH MINTS) __________________