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Bazinga · 02-17-2018, 03:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Lissy Longbottom

"I had literally NO CLUE what I was doing when I decided to try and adopt Cami. But she was mine, so I knew it was the right thing to do. I got the hang of it after a while...although I still wonder sometimes if I know what I'm doing," Javi admitted with a smile. Did anyone REALLY ever get the parenting thing totally DOWN though? He knew his parents kept telling him that they still didn't know what they were doing, and he was 30. He was pretty sure that was to make him feel better, though.

"Well if that's the case, then, find someone who will have kids with you," he said nonchalantly with a shrug. Seemed like a simple fix to him. He bit his lip and looked away after that, though, knowing that might be kind of a touchy subject and wasn't actually THAT simple. After all, he didn't really have a choice to go at this thing along. Karina had made that choice for him before he even knew about Cami.

"I'm sure he isn't just saying that, though," he told her quickly with a blush. "I mean, I haven't actually met him but from what you've told me, he's making an effort. I don't think he would say that if he wasn't ready," he assured her. Cami, meanwhile, was now picking those random wildflowers from the grass, getting pollen alllllllll over herself and her new dress in the process. SIGH.

"Oh Javi, but you do so well with her. You are an amazing father." She patted his arm encouragingly. "There might be a time where I have to ask you parenting advice." This picture came to her as funny, but not because she thought badly of his parenting, but because of how far they have grown in their friendship.

She couldn't help but let her mouth fall open and look at him as he said to find someone else. "I'm not sure if you have noticed but I wasn't never a super real catch. The guy I almost dated before Digby stole one of my nifflers, and before that was just guys who spent one date with me and never owled again." Shrugging that off, because she knew she wasn't someone that guys really looked twice at, but Digby made her feel like one of those girls. She couldn't just leave him if he didn't want kids, could she? She could live without having any, yes, "I don't think I'd leave for that reason, I mean we should have probably talked about that before getting married but if he doesn't really want any, I'll be able to live with that."

They hadn't met, how had they not met yet, "We need to fix that. Maybe you could come over for dinner this week or something." Her best friend and husband should meet, that was crazy they hadn't. Maybe them meeting could help Javi see what she meant at times and not have to just assume based on what she was saying. "I think he worries he won't get all the attention from me after the baby, I mean he won't, but I wouldn't just fully ignore him. "

02-17-2018, 03:58 AM	#605 (permalink)
Bazinga MO & DMGS Forest Troll Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Ohio Posts: 27,991 Hogwarts RPG Name: Kirsten Delbin Hufflepuff Fifth Year Hogwarts RPG Name: Mateo Theodore Slytherin Fifth Year x11 x9	Puff by day, snake by night \| Mj's bestie \| Always UP to Something... Quote: Originally Posted by Lissy Longbottom "I had literally NO CLUE what I was doing when I decided to try and adopt Cami. But she was mine, so I knew it was the right thing to do. I got the hang of it after a while...although I still wonder sometimes if I know what I'm doing," Javi admitted with a smile. Did anyone REALLY ever get the parenting thing totally DOWN though? He knew his parents kept telling him that they still didn't know what they were doing, and he was 30. He was pretty sure that was to make him feel better, though. *"Well if that's the case, then, find someone who will* have kids with you," he said nonchalantly with a shrug. Seemed like a simple fix to him. He bit his lip and looked away after that, though, knowing that might be kind of a touchy subject and wasn't actually THAT simple. After all, he didn't really have a choice to go at this thing along. Karina had made that choice for him before he even knew about Cami. "I'm sure he isn't just saying that, though," he told her quickly with a blush. "I mean, I haven't actually met him but from what you've told me, he's making an effort. I don't think he would say that if he wasn't ready," he assured her. Cami, meanwhile, was now picking those random wildflowers from the grass, getting pollen alllllllll over herself and her new dress in the process. SIGH. "Oh Javi, but you do so well with her. You are an amazing father." She patted his arm encouragingly. "There might be a time where I have to ask you parenting advice." This picture came to her as funny, but not because she thought badly of his parenting, but because of how far they have grown in their friendship. She couldn't help but let her mouth fall open and look at him as he said to find someone else. "I'm not sure if you have noticed but I wasn't never a super real catch. The guy I almost dated before Digby stole one of my nifflers, and before that was just guys who spent one date with me and never owled again." Shrugging that off, because she knew she wasn't someone that guys really looked twice at, but Digby made her feel like one of those girls. She couldn't just leave him if he didn't want kids, could she? She could live without having any, yes, "I don't think I'd leave for that reason, I mean we should have probably talked about that before getting married but if he doesn't really want any, I'll be able to live with that." They hadn't met, how had they not met yet, "We need to fix that. Maybe you could come over for dinner this week or something." Her best friend and husband should meet, that was crazy they hadn't. Maybe them meeting could help Javi see what she meant at times and not have to just assume based on what she was saying. "I think he worries he won't get all the attention from me after the baby, I mean he won't, but I wouldn't just fully ignore him. "** __________________