OMG!! after reading Marcella's post I think she's my hero...it's just the way you wrote and explained it, couldn't done it better myself, its like you took all my thoughts (topic related), organized them and typed them, and you don't even know me!!
I totally agree, you're brilliant and for what I've read you're also younger than me...it kinda makes me feel...stupid, yeap, that's the word.